BISEXUALS: PLEASE LISTEN – A TRUE GAY IS SPEAKING... (By JOHN PAUL..)

BISEXUALS: PLEASE LISTEN – A TRUE GAY IS SPEAKING

During my counseling sessions I have encountered many bisexuals (most of them married a woman) who questioned about the genuinity of gay love and marriage. Bisexuals who are happy with their double faking life always take a dig at Gays who speak about relationship. These bisexuals have no rights to question a gay’s life. Anyway to make these people understand the truth about gays, gay love and gay marriage I will answer those irritating questions.

1.      Bisexual says that Gays are feminine
                                                          My dear Bisexual brothers. If you find a person to be feminine  then with all respect that person is a transgender. A gay is just like any other ordinary man with manly attributes and feelings. Sometimes, in rare cases you can spot clean shaven and childish gays. They behave like that so as to escape from the struggle in their minds. Otherwise a gay is fully a normal male and sometimes much more manly than a straight male. I know many married bisexual men who wish to be bottoms. Does that make those bisexual men as feminine?      

                                          If any of you have an idea of statistics consider this view. Gay community is relatively a minority group and the chances of spotting a feminine gay is just one on ten. Among 100 bisexuals you can spot at least 10 guys who are feminine. Now proportionately 1 in 10 bisexual is also feminine. So hold back your tongue. YOU DON’T HAVE THE RIGHT TO CALL A GAY AS A FEMININE PERSON. A GAY IS ALSO A PERFECT MALE AND SOMETIMES EVEN A BETTER MALE THAN YOU. NOT ALL GAYS ARE BOTTOMS AND NOT ALL BISEXUALS ARE TOPS.

2.      Bisexual says that Gays cheat in relationships
                                                 Cheating a person is an innate quality possessed by both men and women. Both the sexes cheat other. They cheat in the name of love quite often. How many married men lie down only with their wives? Don’t you read media reports of how a wife gets her husband killed by her illegitimate lover? So my kind request to you is don’t associate cheating only with Gays.                        

Every human being cheats. Think about the comforts you have got in your life. You are recognized by the society. You have children and a perfect family set up. You have people supporting you. You are living a wonderful life in the society. But despite all these positives in your life you cheat your wife and occasionally have sex with both men and women. Now consider a Gay. He has no support system. It is just an unrecognized and non – legal relationship between two men. They face harassment and also hardships. Despite this many gays maintain their dignity and live their relationships genuinely.      

SO A BISEXUAL HAS NEVER GOT THE RIGHT TO SAY THAT GAYS CHEAT IN RELATIONSHIPS.

3.       Bisexual feels that it is o.k. to use a Gay for his sexual feelings:

                        I have seen many bisexuals who use Gays both for their financial and sexual needs. A real incident: A Gay was cheated by a bisexual in the name of love. He made that Gay to purchase an expensive laptop, a gold chain and even a newly launched mobile. But using that mobile that bisexual made calls to his girl lover. He just used this gay once in a while and on one fine day he found a silly reason to break up that relationship. Can you give one good explanation for this thing?         

                                                            If you are a bisexual have relationship with another bisexual. Never touch a Gay for your needs. A true Gay never accepts a Penis that travelled in a women’s Vagina. Even on hearing this thing it is disgusting. My dear bisexual brothers, imagine how much disgusting it will be for a Gay if you use him up for your needs. I myself have been in this situation. My ex lover approached me one week after his first night with his wife. When he tried to touch me I felt like a bag of worms let down in my body. Remember my dear bisexual. A GAY IS NOT AN ATM MACHINE OR AN OPEN PROSTITUTE FOR A BISEXUAL.

When I asked a bisexual why he does not prefer to have sex with another bisexual and instead come to a Gay for his sexual need, he replied and I quote, ‘See. If I go to another bisexual I cannot be comfortable because he might have had relationship with a woman and it becomes disgusting for me.’ I asked him,”You are a bisexual and you yourselves have contact with woman and then come to a gay also. Won’t the Gay feel disgusting?” He coolly replied to me, “A Gay does not have shame and a sense of morality. So a Gay will accept me for sex but I won’t accept another bisexual to have sex with me.”

So what do you think about Gays? Are they animals? Being a bisexual you have no right to use a Gay like this and don’t ever justify your debauchery by calling a Gay as immoral.

4.      Bisexual says that homosexuality is just a phase of life:           

                         Majority of the Gays are Gays by birth. It is nature’s gift to us. Look at all the geniuses and great men right from Leonardo da Vinci to Maharaja Manvendra Singh. They are all Gays right from their birth and are never ashamed about it. Go and look at the achievements and the exceptional skills of Gays. Majority of Gays are successful in their academics and their career. Even more majority of Gays have great artistic skills and scientific minds than those dumb bisexuals.               

 We are different. You don’t have the right to say what is correct and what is not. Gays are a part of human race right from Stone Age. For some dumb bisexuals this does not appeal. They just say that we find unscientific reasons to justify ourselves. If you have a better knowledge about us why don’t you prove it? When you don’t know about a thing it is better to keep quite. If you want to ask a hundred questions about a Gay’s life then I will ask you a thousand questions about you bisexuals. But we want to maintain our dignity. So kindly allow us to lead our life and we won’t meddle or question your life.

BEING A GAY IS SOMETHING THAT WAS ENDOWED BY BIRTH WHEREAS BISEXUALITY ARISES OUT OF YOUR SITUATION. BEING A GAY IS OUR LIFE WHEREAS FOR YOU BISEXUALS IT IS JUST A CHOICE. SO DON’T CONFUSE OUR LIFE WITH YOUR CHOICE.     

-      John Paul

(To be continued……………)